Not Alone
Margie Ostroff, Surrey BC

Our new name, Abreast & the Rest, bridges the gap between breast cancer and gynecological cancers. Through misfortune, I have become an expert in not only breast cancer but in ovarian cancer, too. I am a seventeen-year, four-time cancer survivor; two of breast cancer and two of ovarian. Wow! I know.

Breast cancer has been part of my world for 63 years. When I was two years of age, my then-36 year old mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and given the news that her cancer was terminal. At the time, she was pregnant with my younger sister. My mother suffered alone and in silence. At that time, we didn't know about the gene that can put women at higher risk of getting breast cancer although I was eventually told I was in a high-risk familial category.

In 1992, at age 48, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. After surgery, chemotherapy and radiation, I returned to teaching. I was thrilled that the first breast cancer run began that very year and grateful that I was healthy enough to participate. My family and I enthusiastically joined the run; my daughter, my husband and I in Vancouver, my sister in Boston, and my son in Ottawa.

My initial diagnosis was followed in 1995 by a dire stage 4 recurrence in my liver. This was the cancer that had eventually claimed my mother's life. I was determined not to focus on the statistics, though. After six months of treatment, I was in complete remission and I felt relieved. Whew!

I was determined to put my sixties' radicalism back in action. I was not alone. I joined the other breast cancer activists. I could not and would not be silent like my mother had sadly been. I joined The Breast Cancer Alliance and met wonderful women at advocacy meetings. I spoke at the next two Runs for the Cure. I attended and passionately told my story at the many breast cancer breakfast meetings and fundraisers throughout the lower mainland. I attended our local breast cancer support group where I gave and received love and support. A very short six months later, in 1996, I was faced with stage 3C ovarian cancer. For ovarian cancer patients, it is often diagnosed at an all-too-common advanced stage. The prognosis was difficult to listen to because it came with news - once again - of a high mortality rate.

Around the same time, I tested positive for the hereditary gene responsible for breast and ovarian cancer, BRCA1. Being of Jewish Eastern European descent (Ashkenazi), I learned that I had a higher risk of developing cancers that are associated with that genealogy. While I had felt supported when I had breast cancer, this time, with ovarian cancer, I felt alone. Really alone. Where were the support groups, runs and other survivors?

In 1999, I suffered an ovarian cancer recurrence, again an all too common event for women who've had ovarian cancer. After an aggressive treatment regime involving surgery and radiation, I have miraculously been in remission ever since, a rarity indeed.



Margie and Harvey Ostroff

In 1999, Ovarian Cancer Canada was just forming. I and my husband attended an ovarian cancer conference in Toronto. I was pleased to learn that ovarian cancer survivors and their supporters were beginning to raise awareness about ovarian cancer and raise funds for research, following in the footsteps of their breast cancer "sisters". After the ovarian cancer conference, I realized I was not alone after all.

I was contacted about a planning meeting for June 2009 to decide how to expand the Alliance for Breast Cancer Information and Support to include gynecological cancers. I was energized and grateful to be able to contribute my voice to the planning.

Ovarian Cancer Canada sponsored the fourth Winners Walk of Hope in September 2009 in Vancouver. I was pleased to have the opportunity to inform Ashkenazi women of their higher family risk for breast and ovarian cancer. My family members attended the run with me just as they have since the beginning. My family isn't silent about ovarian cancer anymore. We must no longer allow ovarian cancer to be the silent killer. We must join together to find a cure for breast and gynecological cancers so that our daughters won't live in fear of hereditary cancers.

The women at the planning meeting in June wanted to build on the work of the Alliance for Breast Cancer Information and Support and reach out to women with gynecological cancers. So the name of our newsletter has evolved, just as I have. From Abreast in the West to...Abreast and the Rest. Welcome to the expanded newsletter. I hope you find comfort and support here.


Archived Feature Pages

Fall 2009 Vol. 10 No. 4   Shifting Gears  Candice Work
Summer 2008 Vol.10 No.3   The Vogalonga in Venice Italy  Jenny, Carol and Jane
Spring 2009 Vol.11 No. 2   10 years with Abreast in the West  Sandy Poggemiller
Winter 2009 Vol.10 No.1   Haiti, A World Away  Colleen Yrjana
Fall 2008 Vol. 9 No. 4   The Other C-Word  Kate Noble
Summer 2008 Vol.9 No.3   Screening, Investigation & Care  Profile by Sandy Poggemiller
Spring 2008 Vol.9 No.2   12 Women  Sandy Poggemiller
Winter 2008 Vol.9 No.1   Approaching 60 Years, A Breast Cancer Survivor  Sandy Poggemiller
Fall 2007 Vol. 8 No. 4   A Runner with a Heart  Sandy Poggemiller
Summer 2007 Vol.8 No.3   Lullaby  
Spring 2007 Vol. 8 No. 2   Managing Stress When You Have Breast Cancer  Karen Flood, PhD, RCC
Winter 2007 Vol. 8 No.1   An Anchor Point in Prince Rupert   Sandy Poggemiller
Fall 2006 Vol. 6 No. 4   Continuing the Life Quilt Legacy  Ann Massey and Janice Drohan
Summer 2006 Vol.7 No.3   The Magic of a Chance Encounter  Gail Konantz
Spring 2006 Vol. 7 No. 2   Amazon Heart Odyssey-Sri Lanka  By Lou Moreau and Lisa Underhill
Winter 2006 Vol. 7 No.1   A Surgeons View of Breast Cancer  Sandy Poggemiller
Fall 2005 Vol. 6 No. 4   HOPE  In memory of my Vicki
Summer 2005 Vol. 6 No. 3   Translational molecular breast cancer research at the BCCA  Dr. Samuel Aparicio BD BCH PhD MRCPath
Spring 2005 Vol. 6 No. 2   "ring...ring... Hello, your boobs are calling..."  Lisa Underhill, RN, MN
Winter 2005 Vol. 6 No. 1   The Power of Creativity  Lynne Hill
Fall 2004 Vol. 5 No. 4   'We Are Family'
The Young and the Breastless Conference a Huge Success
 
Gabriele Helms, diagnosed age 35 & Joanne Stephen, Research consultant, BC Cancer Agency
Summer 2004 Vol. 5 No. 3   Abreast In A Boat South Africa: Making Miracles Happen   Lou Moreau
Spring 2004 Vol.5 No. 2   The Young & the Breastless
A Networking Event for Young Women with Breast Cancer
 
Elise Partridge and Gabriele Helms
Winter 2004 Vol. 5 No.1   An Advocates Perspective  Laurene Clark, Patient Advocate
Fall 2003 Vol.4 No.4   Breast Re con struc tion!  Gilly Heaps, B.Ed. M.A. (Counselling Psych)
Summer 2003 Vol.4 No.3   A Dream Come True  Peggy Robertson
Spring 2003 Vol.4 No.2   Titz 'n Glitz, Whitehorse,Yukon  Joyce Majiski
Winter 2003 Vol.4. No.1   'The End of a Beginning'  Lynn Macdonald
Fall 2002 Vol.3 No.4   A Pot Full of Healing  Mary Tremayne
Summer 2002 Vol.3 No.3   Quilting Life Back Together  Rosemary Shandler
Spring 2002 Vol.3 No.2   Visual Voices  Sharon Tilton Urdahl
Winter 2002 Vol.3. No.1   Daffodils for Unity  Della Wilson
Fall 2001 Vol.2 No.4   River of Life  Ava P. Christl
Summer 2001 Vol.2 No.3   Living Well with Cancer   Breast Cancer Resource Fair
Spring 2001 Vol.2 No.2   Time to toot our horn!
Initiatives of the Alliance for Breast Cancer Information & Support
 
Winter 2001 Vol.2 No.1   Baring Breasts   Ginny Mitchell
Fall 2000 Vol.1 No.4   Best Friends through it all!  
Summer 2000 Vol.1 No.3   Fatigue Ranked #1 Complaint   Suzanne C. Malfair Taylor, BSc (Pharm), PharmD, BCPS
Spring 2000 Vol.1 No.2   Abreast in Nepal: Paddlers Trekking   Gail Konantz
Winter 2000 Vol.1 No.1   The Role of Silicone Breast Implants in Breast Reconstruction  Dr. Peter Lennox, Plastic Surgeon, Clinical Instructor

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